What Girls want but don't ask for.

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45 THINGS A GIRL WANT, BUT WON'T ASK FOR: ( yes, it's actually a fact ;) )
1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
...4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.

Are you remembering this?
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.

KEEP READING ..
11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say “I love her more than you”, deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved.

Are you thinking of someone?
16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she’s beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.

One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car - it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she’s your everything - only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her - if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT - so just hug her.

24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!

WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US ..
26. Don’t lie to her.
27. DON’T cheat on her.
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants.
29. Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her.
30. Be there for her whenever she needs you, and even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can always count on you.

ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER, BECAUSE IT’S IMPORTANT.
31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.

35. Don’t ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If she’s upset, comfort her.

REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT ..
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.

MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED.
41. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while you’re sitting on her.

You’ll never know when she needs just a little more love .. ♥

The Govind Malhotra (part-1)

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He is “The Govind Malhotra“. Yes, I think he deserves this distinction from me after all the things he did and is still doing for me. I haven’t personally faced him yet but hope I do someday. I want to hug himJ.

 We happened to meet; I mean come across, through a website named TargetIIT. But let’s not get deep into how we became close friends(at least I think we are). I mean I’m not a gay, but had I been then I would fall in love with him but only after Hritik Roashan of course. But mind it; I’m not a gay. Seriously I’m not. Don’t get the wrong idea, okay?? Had I been then I wouldn’t have been blabbering senselessly every time about this girl, writing my encounters with fate and how it turned me down time and again, in this blog. 

But this girl made both of us, Govind and me, pretty close friends for sure (at least that’s what I feel). I mean every time we chatted on facebook or Gmail, our discussion would somehow end up with her. I used to share almost everything happening between me and her with him and he would suggest some cheesy ideas that are worth a laugh and appreciation simultaneously. He is simply, as called by me, Love Guru.

I know he will be reading this because I will ask him to, but, I would like to say this to him: “I Love you, man!!” 

I liked this philosophy very much, that girls in one’s life are like buses, if one goes then another comes but only one bus could take you home and you would never wanna miss that. She is that bus ( I hope she is ). But I always feel pretty disheartened about my chances of her ever knowing about me loving her so much. Will she ever accept me if I disclose my love for her? The thought gives me Goosebumps and fear of losing her makes me cry. I feel, my chances are like 1 in 100 or even lesser (1% or lesser as mathematicians would say, not me). But lifting up my spirits is Govind’s job and he is a success in doing that. After all I’m an easy flattered kind of person.

I remember a funny conversation (facebook chat) I had with Govind recently. Again it was about her and I was all crying before him about my chances of getting along with her. I presented this bus theory which he probably knew before.

Govind: The theory is so correct and Manmay you need to catch that bus. She is right beside you.

Me: I feel like I will miss the bus, my legs injured and I can’t run after the bus even if I’m so desperate for it.

Govind: Don’t worry dude. I will come up on a bike and carry you to the bus, we will catch up. (Gives me a smiley “J “)

Me: But the road’s full of nails, so what if the Tyre gets punctured?

Govind: I got a tubeless tyre, so don’t worry. I’m behind you. I want to see you guys together.

And we broke down into laughter. Hell, my stomach started aching. Govind is one of my bestie, I thought then. But then I thought to ask him, ”what if the petrol’s all used up?”, but he was offline already. I thought to ask him that the next time. But even if he knows that I like a girl whom I’m yet to meet, he’s still beside me offering a helping hand. Govind’s took the task up for providing with all sorts of ideas to impress her and seeing us together; after all he is out Love Guru. So if at all I happen not to get along with her, it would be entirely his fault.

(P.S. I’m not a Gay and if you are wondering why am i continuously declaring throughout the post that i’m not a gay or whatever, because people get the wrong idea every time. I ‘m just defending so don’t get your brains worked up, ok? J .)